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For the next 5 minutes, let’s elevate your career.
In today’s email:
Play
The power of hand-written notes
Thinking as a team sport
Ask colleagues for help
Benjamin Franklin as career coach
ON YOUR CAREER
Play
Playfulness at work increases our:
✅ Creativity
✅ Collaboration
✅ Engagement
✅ Resilience
✅ Joy
We can be serious about our work without being too serious about ourselves. Staying playful is a great way to live a career.
This is the real secret of life—to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realize it is play.
COMMUNICATION
The power of hand-written notes
Hand-written notes connect at a deeper level than an email or text message. Recipients perceive them as more authentic and thoughtful. Their rarity makes them stand out. And they’re a tangible memento that are more likely to be kept.
Our notes to colleagues can be short. Arriving to a post-it note on a keyboard can bring happiness. A retiring CEO I coached in Hong Kong wrote a thank you card to each of his direct reports. Their feedback was that his words meant a lot.
Are there any colleagues who would value a note from you?
PRODUCTIVITY
Thinking as a team sport
There’s no work I enjoy more than brainstorming product ideas with colleagues. It can be 1 + 1 + 1 + 1 = 288. Many ideas are quickly abandoned. Others are explored, tested, and shared with clients. We play. We treat thinking as a team sport.
It’s amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.
1 MINUTE TO LESS STRESS
Ask colleagues for help
Sometimes our ego stops us from asking for assistance. We don’t want to feel vulnerable. But we don’t have to do it all by ourselves. Here are three great reasons to ask colleagues for help:
When we feel overloaded, having colleagues assist us lowers our stress
Colleagues are more likely to subsequently ask us for help
People tend to treat us better once they’ve helped us. It’s known as the Benjamin Franklin Effect.
Great things in business are never done by one person. They’re done by a team of people.
GET SMARTER
Benjamin Franklin
Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) was an American Founding Father, scientist, and diplomat. He made his fortune from publishing and printing businesses. Franklin was probably the first US franchisor by renting equipped printing shops to apprentices for 30% of the profits. A sample of his inventions included the lightning rod, bifocals, catheters, a stove, and swim fins.
The Benjamin Franklin Effect is a psychological phenomenon where doing a favor for someone increases positive feelings towards that person. Franklin discovered this when he asked a political rival to lend him a rare book, which improved their relationship. The effect is explained by cognitive dissonance: people justify their actions by aligning their feelings with them. Asking for small favors can be a powerful tool for building rapport and strengthening connections with colleagues.
Some of Franklin’s other wisdom:
Do not squander time for that is the stuff life is made of.
By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
Well done is better than well said.