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Be careful who you let near your head
Validation
Simplify
A single act
Amelia Earhart’s career wisdom
ON YOUR CAREER
Be careful who you let near your head
Some words stay with us. Michael Cavanagh, my former psychology professor, said, “be careful who you let near your head.” He cautioned us about receiving and providing bad advice. Many people suffer setbacks in their careers and relationships because they follow advice that was wrong for them.
4 tips to help avoid bad advice:
Listen to people whose values align with your goals
Recognize everyone has biases that may influence their advice
Seek advice from people with relevant expertise and experience
Use advice as an input but use your own critical thinking
COMMUNICATION
Caroline Fleck’s Validation
Dr Caroline Fleck’s Validation (2025) explores how to influence and connect with people. Here are 3 things we derived:
Validation is not praise, problem-solving, or agreement. Validation is accepting another’s feelings and beliefs as real and understandable. Even if we don’t agree or approve.
Validation is a universal human need. Regardless of background, we crave acceptance and acknowledgment. Validation fosters trust, emotional safety, and stronger relationships.
Validation creates conditions for people to be receptive to feedback. People are more open to change and growth when they feel understood.
All emotions are valid. Trust me, you don’t want to get in the business of arguing with people about how they feel.
PRODUCTIVITY
Simplify
Simplification involves:
Breaking complex tasks into more manageable components
Automating repetitive tasks
Removing unnecessary steps
And clarifying roles
Simplification improves our productivity.
What weekly tasks could you and your team simplify?
Knowledge is a process of piling up facts; wisdom lies in their simplification.
1 MINUTE TO HAPPINESS
A single act
Giving and receiving kindness makes us happier. A single kind act can initiate a positive feedback loop. Imagine a workplace with hundreds of positive loops rippling across it.
No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
CAREER WISDOM
Amelia Earhart
Amelia Earhart (1897 to 1937) disappeared in the Pacific Ocean while attempting to fly around the world. She served as a nurse’s aide during World War I. After the war, she briefly studied pre-med at Columbia University before joining her family in California. Earhart took her first airplane ride in 1920 which sparked her passion for flying.
Earhart became a celebrated aviator. She was the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic and the first person to fly solo from Hawaii to California. Earhart was also an author, career counselor, and clothing designer. Some of her career wisdom:
The best way to do it is to do it.
There is more to life than being a passenger.
Never interrupt someone doing something you said couldn’t be done.